Category Archives: EmpowerMe365

You Can not Give what You Do not Have

You can’t love another human being unless you love and accept yourself. You cannot give what you don’t have. Your self-worth is very important. I am not referring to glorious vanity or your thinking more highly of yourself that you ought. I am referring to the mentality of accepting yourself wholly and without prejudice. It is a treasure and a delight when I meet someone who knows their own worth. When you are aware of who you really are (not who others think you are), you refuse to accept anything less than what you are worth. When I talk about ‘worth’ here, I am referring to your value. Surely, you are priceless.

There is no amount of money that can equal to your existence. There is no amount of money that can be paid to cover your presence. But value, in this case, has to do with how you feel about yourself, treat yourself and what thoughts you think towards yourself.

When you value yourself, others will follow suit in like manner. Many people stay in relationships that are unhealthy because they believe that their own worth is tied to another person. Believe me when I say that your worth is not engulfed within another person. If you are in this type of relationship, Get Out Now! And decide that you are worth it. You deserve to be in a healthy, loving relationship. Other people can help, teach, encourage and empower us but no one can place a measure of value upon you except you-alone. You must know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are worthy! Say it with me: “I am Worthy of Love”

Though the world can be an unloving place, we all, in spite of what we show forth to others, we all have the capacity to love. Love is universal. Any person can recognize love with their heart. It may take longer for some people to recognize love because hurt has blocked them but given the chance, they will. Some people need more love and therefore, more patience to deal with. When you meet someone who seems the most unloving – they are the ones who really need it. They need something to penetrate the wall of hurt. The only power that can penetrate is a power called love, often nothing else. So, I urge you to be an action figure, a shero or hero, called Love!

Frenetta Tate is CEO of Frenetta Tate International, a Certified Women’s Life Empowerment Coach, Certified International Entrepreneur Coach, Business Strategist, Author and Speaker. I am passionate about helping men and women understand their unique advantage, embrace their personal power with clarity and navigate through life using effective strategies for their unique success. Feel free to email to or connect to @frenettatate on social media.

Get Some Balance

It is important to have balance. If you are a giver; you’ve got to learn how to receive.

Your choosing not to receive does not make you a better giver.

Whether it is tangible or intangible; words of blessing spoken or gifts given. I encourage you to receive when others have it on their hearts to bless your life. God rewards givers in His own way and in various forms. The other side of this is to give not expecting to receive. Give from the heart and be done with it. If someone wants to bless you, allow them to bless you. They are simply being obedient to what God may have placed on their hearts.

Don’t wave away kindness.  Let people BE KIND.

Your not accepting a kindness does not make you more humble.

When someone chooses to be kind, it is God’s grace. Everyone is not kind, everyone don’t give and everyone don’t love so when any of these things occur – it is a grace of God moment. Be blessed and receive God’s love.

If you are a giver; learn how to receive from people and if you are always taking, learn how to give to people. Get some balance when it comes to giving and receiving. If you are giving beyond the level you feel comfortable then you need to evaluate your giving. Especially in relationships with others. Giving should be guilt-free and not make you feel bad. Also notice the takers in your life. No one should position themselves to allow the takers to just take. There are those in the world.

So, allow people to be kind to you and be receptive to the love of God poured out to you in various ways and through others.


Frenetta Tate is an International Best-Selling Author, Certified Empowerment Coach, Motivational Speaker, Event Strategy Consultant and President of EmpowerMe365™. Learn more at

Jumpstart 2014! – Have a Life Worth Living – Teleseminar

2014 is fast approaching. By the time you get this, we will have 50 days to go until the end of this year. I share this with you not to stress you but to encourage you to get a JUMPSTART on the new year. Don’t let it catch you off guard and put you in a place of anxiety because you did not get things done before the new year. Not only this but life is far better when you know where you are going, have set goals and plans in place and have life strategies that are long-lived rather than short-lived.

We set short-lived goals because we feel that we have to for the new year. We often get the question, “What is your new year’s resolution?” and we feel that we need to give an answer but I want to encourage you to not give an answer that would be short-lived but well-thought, well-planned, with goals, objectives, plans and strategies.

This is the foundation of my upcoming, “JumpStart 2014 – The Life Worth Living” Teleseminar.

I want to personally invite you and your friends to consider registering for this teleseminar. You can attend from the comfort of your own home and as an end of the year special; it is $59.00 to register. It will be on December 8,2013 at 4:10pm.

You have a life worth living no matter what you face, no matter what has happened in your life; even if you think you have messed up or you can’t be redeemed. YOU CAN. I believe 2014 can be your best year but you must have strategies, plans, goals and objectives in place in order for you to be successful. You cannot just have a “Happy New Year”, you must make it happen through your actions and even, a renewal of your mind. That is what this Tele-seminar is all about. As an END OF THE YEAR Special, I am offering this course for just $59.00 ($299 value)

2nd Annual Jumpstart 2014
Register at – You will receive the link for the event.

Get a jumpstart on the New Year by INVESTING in your MIND with this Tele-Seminar, especially designed for the ACTION-ORIENTED ENTREPRENEUR and PERSONAL EMPOWERMENT SEEKER!

Where: Call in to the Tele-Seminar from anywhere in the world.

Topics that will be covered are:

  1. Get clarity on your main life struggles
  2. Get 5 key insights on how to master your mind.
  3. Understand the 5 blocks that may be hindering your progress
  4. Get 3 strategies to uncover and conquer your fears
  5. Learn top 5 positive actions to take right now!
  6. Learn how to effectively self-assess and employ observations for life success
  7. Learn 10 Personal Empowerment Strategies

Once you register at  – You will receive the link for the event.

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Submit your questions below and it just may be chosen to be answered on the Teleseminar.

P.S. If you register for this event and cannot attend, don’t worry, it will be recorded and you will be sent the recorded link automatically.

Frenetta Tate is an International Best Selling Author of “Hot Mama in High Heels”, Certified Empowerment Coach and Motivational Speaker. Visit to learn more about her services and products.

Declare Your Dream

Today marks the 50 year anniversary of Martin Luther King’s ‘I have a dream’ speech. More than 200,000 gathered on the mall for the March on Washington for Jobs and Freedom on Aug. 28, 1963. Dreams can be realized. Dream can come to fruition. Much that has happened in our world started out as a dream in someone’s heart. As they say, Dreams DO come true!

We all have dreams, goals, aspirations and hopes about our future – individually and collectively. Along life’s highway to those things; ‘shift’ happens. We get discouraged, lose hope, become cynical and give up on all of it. We basically stop trying and cease our pursuits.

TODAY, IN THIS VERY MOMENT, As you read this, I SPEAK a FRESH wind into your spirit, a reviving wind, a rejuvenating wind, a wind that will SHIFT YOU FORWARD to REALIZE your dreams, goals, aspirations and hopes!

I speak against discouragement, lack, misguidance, unworthiness, injustice, dashed dreams, crushed hopes, lost aspirations and faulty goals. I speak LIFE to you, flowing within you like raging waters washing away the hurt, disappointment, pain and guilt.

May you be ENERGIZED, EMPOWERED, ENCOURAGED and ESTATIC about your future!

I say to you RISE UP from your bed of barrenness! RISE UP from your couch of complacency! RISE UP from your chair of callousness!

Walk toward your destiny with a fresh vision for your life – a vision of hope with a bright future. No longer settle for the scraps of life, no longer settle for just getting by, no longer settle for being average. YOU have GREATNESS on the INSIDE of you. Your dreams can be realized! Step out with a new hope TODAY. Only YOU can make that decision to RISE UP!

Let TODAY be your day of healing, restoration and revival.

Let TODAY be the day that YOU make your COMEBACK!

Let TODAY be the day that you WRITE your own DREAM declaration!

Share Your Story:  How will you write your dream declaration today?

Frenetta Tate, President of EmpowerMe365, is a Certified Empowerment Coach and Motivational Speaker. She can be reached at

Let No Negative Label Stick

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In 1989, many people said a lot of great things about me (my beauty, my mind and my potential) but I didn’t believe it for myself. Today, I not only believe it but I walk in it every single day of my life. My personal positive images and beliefs are deep within my heart.

You see, it doesn’t matter what great things people say about you; If you don’t believe it about yourself, it means absolutely nothing. You’ve got to have good positive beliefs about yourself deep within your heart so that not one negative label will stick on you. Believe great things about yourself. Not just on the surface of your life but put it down deep within your heart.

Share Your Story:  How do you keep from letting negative labels stick to you?

Frenetta Tate, President of EmpowerMe365, is a Certified Empowerment Coach and Motivational Speaker. She can be reached at